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CONFIDENCE comes through in the end, keep TRYING!.

CONFIDENCE comes through in the end, keep TRYING!.

When a coworker or employer complements your look, a tidy dress might help you feel more secure at work. If you take some time to think about it, you'll undoubtedly be able to recall previous times when you felt more confident and "on top of the world." You'll agree that it's always a pleasant sensation!

 

There are numerous advantages to being confident: you will acquire the respect of others around you, you will be a happier person, and you will feel motivated to establish more successful relationships and enterprises, to name a few. Considering these advantages, here are a few simple yet tiny modifications you can do now to help you appear more confident.

 

Always put on clean, ironed clothing.

Because it is the initial point of contact while you are out there, your appearance says a lot about you. As a result, it's critical to always look your best!

You've probably heard the adage, "Dress as if you want to be addressed!" That is a proven fact!

If you want to appear beautiful, don't make the mistake of thinking you have to spend a lot of money.

You don't have to spend a fortune to look beautiful; all you must do is pay greater attention to keeping your clothes clean and ironed. Part of what it would do for you is that you'd be able to command respect with ease, which would boost your confidence in a positive way.

Make eye contact with people.

Do you avoid eye contact by looking down or averting your gaze when others are speaking to you?

So, your expression is expressing that you're bashful and intimidated by the person's presence, and you're indirectly sending them a message. If you don't want others to think that way about you, practice raising your head and staring directly at the person you're speaking with. You can also practice the following habits to help you with this:

 

Acquire new abilities

The sense of accomplishment that comes with learning a new talent is unparalleled! It's a terrific method to increase your confidence, aside from the feeling of having something 'new' to contribute to society. Imagine that you're usually clumsy in the kitchen since you're not sure what ingredients to use. If your friends come over, it will be difficult to feel confident about cooking for them.

In this situation, enrolling in a cooking class is the greatest option. You'll gain a lot of confidence once you've mastered the technique of delicious cooking meals. That's how it feels when you learn a new skill: it gives you a fresh lease on life. You can already see places where you need to hone your skills or learn something new as you read this. Make a list of these areas and don't let anything stop you from achieving your goals.

 

Don't Talk About Your Fears

It's best to keep your concerns, doubts, and flaws to yourself, but if you must share them with someone, make sure it's someone you can trust. Another technique to increase your self-esteem is to do so. 

 

Don't Make Comparisons to Others

It is undeniable that comparing oneself to others can erode your self-esteem.It makes you feel as if someone else is superior to you. Believe that you, like everyone else, are one-of-a-kind in your own way.

According to the adage, "Be yourself; everyone else is taken."

Always strive to develop yourself and be proud of who you are. You'll become bitter if you envy other people's lifestyles. Not only that, but your self-esteem will suffer because of it. Remember your talents and accomplishments if you ever feel tempted to be envious of others. Remind yourself of the advantages and benefits you enjoy that they do not.

This will assist you in keeping your feet on the ground, and you will begin to see reasons to be pleased with yourself.

 

Confidence is a trait that anybody can acquire, and daily self-improvement is crucial to achieving it. Looking well, gaining new abilities, and not comparing yourself to others are all positive attitudes that can help you boost your self-esteem and live a happier life.

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  1. author

    Kobby, well, you have a point. Our secrets and ideas are our weapon. So in sharing them, we have to be skeptical about it. Sometimes, we talk too much about everything and we forget about the hearer or the one listening. However, there is an exception to this : "but if you must share them with someone, make sure it's someone you can trust." By so doing, it increases your self confidence. The good listener invokes some kind of energy into you which helps to ginger you throughout...

  2. author

    Kobby,not sharing your concerns are not always the best solution but when you have a clear understanding of the receivers thoughts then you can share,remember the key word in this blog post is trust. You should trust their judgement well enough to help you save the little self confidence,because many times our confidence get bruised by the wrong persons we trust our concerns with.Your,concerns, ideas and secrets are your weapon,endeavour to keep them safe. Confidence comes through in the end

  3. author

    How does not sharing your concerns help one to be more confident in themselves ?

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